要讨好别人, 其实不容易, 尤其是面对着不知足的人, 讨好可能变得很费力...
工作上，要讨好就得懂得擦鞋;
感情上，要讨好就需学会牺牲，也就是所谓的重色轻友，简称WH4及WL4;
交际上，要讨好就要去应酬，难听点，可叫做陪坐...
我不会讨好, 也不懂怎么去讨好别人,
只要尽量配合, 这就是最好的讨好,
吃点亏, 没什么大不了,
因为我知道也会有人讨好我,
服从我有的没的要求..
我不想当个只等着被人讨好的人,
令他人盲目的迁就,
增添麻烦， 让人唾弃，
因为， 我...没那么幸福，
也不会拥有，
更不奢求....
如果你是讨好的, 别放弃,
讨好你的人, 总在不远,
若你是被讨好的, 恭喜你,
你找到了贵人, 好好珍惜...
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Goong Hei, Giong Hee, Gong Xi, Goong Hee, Tahniah, Congrats...
I know the couples may never realise that people blog about them, but I hope they can sense the sincerity of my wishes through this post... Congratulations on the bonding of Michael Goh and Christina Tham...
I wish that they will live happily ever after, and have found their eternal soul mate, to live on and to fill each others' life with love, passion and honesty...
Congratulations again to the newly weds, do enjoy the honeymoon in Taiwan :D
I wish that they will live happily ever after, and have found their eternal soul mate, to live on and to fill each others' life with love, passion and honesty...
Congratulations again to the newly weds, do enjoy the honeymoon in Taiwan :D
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Lost~
I've lost something very important to me... Something which means very much to me...
There's nothing I can do to compensate the mistake I've commited...
I know don't deserve to be forgiven... Wish I'd never received and then lost it...
There's nothing I can do to compensate the mistake I've commited...
I know don't deserve to be forgiven... Wish I'd never received and then lost it...
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
New Relationship
I'm suppose to be angry on what they've done to be so secretive... But since it's their happiness, I'm cheering up for them that both of them are officially together now...
Finally they're together now. It started when both of them were good friends, while some of us just teased at them occasionally that feelings started to grow and Kai Loon made his moves. We worried on his pace of getting the girl he wants as both of them seemed like friends and nothing else but friends. Even Cindy and Xien were faster to come as one than them which made Kai Loon looked like an idiot for not making any move. But then, during Langkawi trip, Kai Loon really got the balls to kiss Vivi and when both of them were locked, they did what they should do, chatting haha - thumbs up for that...
After holiday, everything becomes quiet and nobody talks bout them any further. Hints are left for us. Everyone is guessing but none confirmed it till last night. We forced the main girl to a corner and made her talked what we wanted to hear.. the love.. Apparently they got together for almost a month. If it wasn't for the overnight, we wouldn't have been so daring to corner them and make them talk. They confessed and everyone was happy for them but also angry since such a big thing was kept secret for a month without the knowledge of the group. Anger made us called Kai Loon to answer more questions and to record what he said about the 'crime' he commited and the words he used trying to protect her haha.. In order to calm everyone down, punishment must be given to them for hiding the truth hehe
First, calls are made to the rest of the gang, in order to send out the news to inform others. Next, blogs are written by all bloggers among us to inform the readers bout this highly anticipated relationship and the how bad it can be when such secrets are kept from our group hehe. Lastly, the record will be sent to everyone who has a phone to listen to what Mr. Kai Loon has said during our interrogation. It's only a few minutes, but worth a listen.. kekeke
Last but not least, I should congratulate my dear sister Vivi Saputri for finding a good guy which suits her, where both are just shy to talk about their things. They have my blessing and I am happy as my sister is finally owned by someone and doesn't need me to worry for her more haha, it becomes the burden of my future bro-in-law, and I can get a diversion as it's not me who gets bullied now... :P
Wish the both of you to be happy together =D
Finally they're together now. It started when both of them were good friends, while some of us just teased at them occasionally that feelings started to grow and Kai Loon made his moves. We worried on his pace of getting the girl he wants as both of them seemed like friends and nothing else but friends. Even Cindy and Xien were faster to come as one than them which made Kai Loon looked like an idiot for not making any move. But then, during Langkawi trip, Kai Loon really got the balls to kiss Vivi and when both of them were locked, they did what they should do, chatting haha - thumbs up for that...
After holiday, everything becomes quiet and nobody talks bout them any further. Hints are left for us. Everyone is guessing but none confirmed it till last night. We forced the main girl to a corner and made her talked what we wanted to hear.. the love.. Apparently they got together for almost a month. If it wasn't for the overnight, we wouldn't have been so daring to corner them and make them talk. They confessed and everyone was happy for them but also angry since such a big thing was kept secret for a month without the knowledge of the group. Anger made us called Kai Loon to answer more questions and to record what he said about the 'crime' he commited and the words he used trying to protect her haha.. In order to calm everyone down, punishment must be given to them for hiding the truth hehe
First, calls are made to the rest of the gang, in order to send out the news to inform others. Next, blogs are written by all bloggers among us to inform the readers bout this highly anticipated relationship and the how bad it can be when such secrets are kept from our group hehe. Lastly, the record will be sent to everyone who has a phone to listen to what Mr. Kai Loon has said during our interrogation. It's only a few minutes, but worth a listen.. kekeke
Last but not least, I should congratulate my dear sister Vivi Saputri for finding a good guy which suits her, where both are just shy to talk about their things. They have my blessing and I am happy as my sister is finally owned by someone and doesn't need me to worry for her more haha, it becomes the burden of my future bro-in-law, and I can get a diversion as it's not me who gets bullied now... :P
Wish the both of you to be happy together =D
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Once And For ALL
Guess I'm starting all over again for my blog... I know the address is lame, be changing it soon...
My name is Kian Loong, 23, single and etc and bla bla bla...
Not gonna waste time on those shit introduction..
As my blog titles, 75 means alot to me. I wonder if it's as important to others but surely this figure will remain important for the rest of my life if I wanna be successful..
In my whole life, determination is the second thing I lack the most besides money. For my whole life, my target to achieve something which is long term has never blossomed. Always told myself to be strong and endure myself through all the things I wanna do but always failed the consistency part. Getting on diet was already my aim since form 6. But the food always prevails and they just go into my stomach without much difficulty. While putting them into my mouth, the heart will convey message to the heart saying " Today eat more, tomorrow exercise more to cover it back". Damn it never worked, not even once.
While working out, the heart and the muscles will also convey more messages saying "Man it's painful, why suffer so much? Better stop now and continue later, and there was never any later after I rested for awhile. After some workout, stomach will start making noises notifying that it's time to feast. Feasting means that eating so much more than I normally do. Conclusively, it was a failure where I even gained more weight than before...
This time it's different. It's totally different from previous ones. I'm seriously sure for this time. It is for so many things this time. It's for health, well being healthy is not the most important of course, it's the shape which matters this time. This maybe wrong but I surely don't want to look fat when taking photos with other guys especially when our clothes off. It just gives a sucker punch right to my face looking at the photos. Another important fact, the reward I can reap hehe. How often do you get a person as the prize if you manage to put off weight? I did mention that I can get some one better if I slim myself down, and somehow I was told that this would make the prize to become an option. It's my right but not my obligation to exercise. I have to clarify that whatever this is, it is like a nitrous inside a car which boosts my confidenc and enhance my determination to get slim, even as small as 100G would bring that much closer to the ultimate - 75.
Should I fail this time, it would imply that I'm a man with no honour and will be looked down as someone who can't even fulfill what he promised to himself, a stain in my life..
My name is Kian Loong, 23, single and etc and bla bla bla...
Not gonna waste time on those shit introduction..
As my blog titles, 75 means alot to me. I wonder if it's as important to others but surely this figure will remain important for the rest of my life if I wanna be successful..
In my whole life, determination is the second thing I lack the most besides money. For my whole life, my target to achieve something which is long term has never blossomed. Always told myself to be strong and endure myself through all the things I wanna do but always failed the consistency part. Getting on diet was already my aim since form 6. But the food always prevails and they just go into my stomach without much difficulty. While putting them into my mouth, the heart will convey message to the heart saying " Today eat more, tomorrow exercise more to cover it back". Damn it never worked, not even once.
While working out, the heart and the muscles will also convey more messages saying "Man it's painful, why suffer so much? Better stop now and continue later, and there was never any later after I rested for awhile. After some workout, stomach will start making noises notifying that it's time to feast. Feasting means that eating so much more than I normally do. Conclusively, it was a failure where I even gained more weight than before...
This time it's different. It's totally different from previous ones. I'm seriously sure for this time. It is for so many things this time. It's for health, well being healthy is not the most important of course, it's the shape which matters this time. This maybe wrong but I surely don't want to look fat when taking photos with other guys especially when our clothes off. It just gives a sucker punch right to my face looking at the photos. Another important fact, the reward I can reap hehe. How often do you get a person as the prize if you manage to put off weight? I did mention that I can get some one better if I slim myself down, and somehow I was told that this would make the prize to become an option. It's my right but not my obligation to exercise. I have to clarify that whatever this is, it is like a nitrous inside a car which boosts my confidenc and enhance my determination to get slim, even as small as 100G would bring that much closer to the ultimate - 75.
Should I fail this time, it would imply that I'm a man with no honour and will be looked down as someone who can't even fulfill what he promised to himself, a stain in my life..
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